Book Review : Prepared for Grace, by Grace

preparedDepending on one’s theological point of view, the terms salvation, election, and grace have different connotations. For example, of an individual leans toward reformed theology, most commonly known as Calvinism, there is a belief that God’s sovereignty crowds out man’s God-given free will. As a result, He chooses who will be saved and they have no choice either way because God’s grace is irresistible. One of the functions of grace that reformers hold to is the Puritan belief in “preparatory grace”. This is the focus of Joel Beeke and Paul Smalley’s new book, “Prepared by Grace, for Grace; The Puritans on God’s Ordinary Way of Leading Sinners to Christ”. The authors point out that the Puritans believed and taught that God was working grace in the lives of individuals before they accepted the call of salvation. Simply put, the Puritans believed that the grace that was necessary for their salvation is applied to the believer even before the moment they are saved.

The authors state that this doctrine preparation addresses the question as to the manner in which God “ordinarily” brings a person to a saving knowledge of Christ. Not all questions are answered. In their own words, “Specifically, is conversion an event or a process? If a process, how does the work of conversion begin? There may be exceptional cases, but in general, is there a pattern to conversion? They take the position that it is a process. They write, “Many Puritans of England and New England answered these questions with the doctrine of preparation. People must be prepared to believe in Christ before they exercise such faith. Such preparation of the heart may be viewed as a part of the process that leads to conversion.” Even here, questions remain. The remainder of the book is dedicated to explaining this pre-working of God’s grace.

This book is full of quotes from Puritan authors and modern day reformed scholars. This book is well researched and has the feel of a collection of essays that don’t quite fit together. It also has a textbook feel to it. There are so many quotes and footnotes that is becomes distracting. The authors, in an attempt to elaborate their point, bring in too much peripheral work. For example, while saying what preparatory grace is, many times they give extensive examples of what it is not. Thus muddying the water. There is too much inclusion of unnecessary thought. Far too much time is given to trying to figure out God’s mind in terms of a human process.

I have to be honest here. I do not embrace Reformed Theology. I have a difficult time with the subject, not intellectually but practically. I am quickly offended by the pride and arrogance with which a number of reformed authors write. That being said, “Prepared by Grace, for Grace” has some excellent content with the covers and there is much to be gleaned here. I took away some great things from this book. It is however not a book that I can recommend.

Disclosure of Material Connection: I received this book free from Cross Focused Reviews as part of their Blogger Review Program. I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255: “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising.”

Father’s Day Without My Dad

My dad, Carol Ruff, died on December 25, 2012 after being diagnosed with Stage 4 Lung Cancer in the summer of 2012. The remainder of the year was filled with doctors appointments, hospital stays, and tough decisions. I had the great privilege of preaching my dad’s funeral. I can’t say how many funerals I have officiated over the past 15 years. I can say however this one was the most difficult. This is my first Father’s Day without my dad. I have been thinking a lot about him lately. For some reason I don’t believe I have grieved his death. I want to share with you the words that I shared at his funeral service on December 29, 2012.

Growing up, we had a rather difficult life. We moved around a great deal. Dad was a dairy-farmer and this migrant, nomadic lifestyle caused us to live wherever there was housing. By the time I had entered the 7th grade, we had moved a total of thirteen times; from south Florida to the mountains of North Carolina. My dad battled many personal demons. He lived in two different rescue missions (Tifton, GA and Paducah, KY) for approximately eight years after his divorce from my mother. This was a rough time for him. During his stay at the mission in Tifton, he enrolled in a faith-based alcohol rehabilitation program. During this three month program, my dad gave his heart and life to Jesus Christ. I remember the day he called me to share the news. He was so excited. Needless to say, I was extremely excited and proud of him. Jesus made a difference in my dad’s life. The change was evident and real. Allow me to share that change with you. My scripture:

1 Therefore, having been justified by faith, we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ, 2 through whom also we have access by faith into this grace in which we stand, and rejoice in hope of the glory of God. 3 And not only that, but we also glory in tribulations, knowing that tribulation produces perseverance; 4 and perseverance, character; and character, hope. 5 Now hope does not disappoint, because the love of God has been poured out in our hearts by the Holy Spirit who was given to us. 6 For when we were still without strength, in due time Christ died for the ungodly. 7 For scarcely for a righteous man will one die; yet perhaps for a good man someone would even dare to die. 8 But God demonstrates His own love toward us, in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us. (Romans 5:1-8)

The apostle Paul speaks of a change in natures. My dad’s nature changed as well.

1. MY DAD DEVELOPED A GIVING NATURE:

My dad moved from serving himself to serving others. Up until that point, his life was all about him. If my dad had a bad day at work, he would quit. I can’t say how many times we moved simply because my dad got mad at his boss over something silly. In his new nature, after Jesus saved him, he began to think of others. He served and worked at the mission where he was a resident. He volunteered with activities at the church he attended.

2. MY DAD DEVELOPED A FORGIVING NATURE:

My dad could stay mad at someone and hold a grudge better than anyone I knew. If you offended him there was a pretty good chance he would not forgive you. After Christ came into his life, he understood the need for and necessity in extending forgiveness. Why? He had experienced forgiveness through the blood of Christ. Dad had a desire to mend broken relationships. My dad and my brother Jason had not spoken to each other in a long time. He set out to make things right with him and with my mother. Forgiveness from above leads to forgiveness among others.

3. MY DAD DEVELOPED A LOVING NATURE:

Let me qualify this statement. My dad loved us before he was saved. However, he could not properly love us until Christ took hold of his heart. He understood love finally and as a result relationships meant more to him. Again, the apostle Paul wrote about our new bodies and our new natures.

1 For we know that if our earthly house, this tent, is destroyed, we have a building from God, a house not made with hands, eternal in the heavens. 2 For in this we groan, earnestly desiring to be clothed with our habitation which is from heaven, 3 if indeed, having been clothed, we shall not be found naked. 4 For we who are in this tent groan, being burdened, not because we want to be unclothed, but further clothed, that mortality may be swallowed up by life. 5 Now He who has prepared us for this very thing is God, who also has given us the Spirit as a guarantee. (2 Cor. 5:1-5)

Paul’s words are most comforting. While we wait for our new heavenly bodies, while we wait to see Jesus face to face, we have a guarantee, or a deposit, of what is to come. That guarantee is the person of the Holy Spirit living inside every believer. I miss my dad today. I really wish I could talk with him. This is the first time that I have written about him since his death. Maybe this is the beginning of my season of grief. I hope so.

Book Review : Insourcing

insourceOne of the most talked about subjects in the local church today is that of discipleship. Questions such as “What model should we use?” or “How do we know what a disciple looks like?” or “Doesn’t discipleship happen naturally?” are common today. Conferences are held, workshops are offered, and books have been written to meet the growing desire of churches to be effectively engaged in the discipleship process. In his new book “Insourcing; Bringing Discipleship Back to the Local Church”, Randy Pope, lead pastor of Perimeter Church in Atlanta, Georgia lends his thoughts and convictions to this ongoing conversation.

Pope begins his book by introducing the principle of models. He writes, “models marry dream to function.” They are a means to an end. Pope begins by giving some background on commonly embraced discipleship models today. First, the Pastoral Model. He writes, “It is a model of ministry whose basic building blocks are a small, stable flock and a loving, multitalented, maintenance-oriented shepherd.” Second, the Attractional Model. Pope writes, “A new breed of Christians flocked to churches where the message, the music, and the method suited their tastes.” Third, the Influential Model. Again, he writes, “As we strengthened the hand of our ministry, we joined with other churches in our community who desired the same kind of change.” Reading that Jesus spent nearly all of His time in small group communication, Pope speaks of a model that revolves around people. In place of these three oft-accepted models, Pope and his congregation embraced a fourth model: Life on Life Missional Discipleship. This new model falls in between the pastoral and attractional models and, as Pope writes, asks the question, “Were our people becoming the right people?”

In his LOLMD model, there are five main emphases that Pope gives to the reader. They follow the acronym TEAMS. Truth: Members of the small group learn how to study the Bible on their own and bring questions back to the entire group. Equipping: Members are given specific plans to follow which are modeled before them in group with assignments given for follow-up. Accountability: Hard questions are asked of the members and behavior is challenged in a grace-filled environment. Mission: Members are challenged to take the mission of Christ into their homes and workplace. Supplication: An atmosphere of prayer is always present among the members of the group. Scattered throughout the chapters is a mock small group meeting. Pope uses these fictional characters to illustrate how the model is fleshed out in men’s and women’s groups.

All in all, Pope has written a good book that lends an interesting twist to the discipleship conversation. “Insourcing” is well-written and informative. However, there is nothing ground-breaking here. Leaders who have been following the ever-changing pursuit of discipleship through courses, conferences, and books will recognize the content here.

Disclosure of Material Connection: I received this book free from Thomas Nelson Publishers as part of their Blogger Review Program. I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255: “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising.”

Free Book Friday

outliveIt is time for me to take down and give away another book off of my bookshelf.  I am giving away a copy of Max Lucado’s “Out Live Your Life”. In this book, Lucado challenges the reader to make a difference that will last beyond your time on earth.

To be entered to win, you must do (2) things.

1. Follow my blog by clicking on the button at the bottom of the page.

2. Answer the following question by leaving your answer in the comment stream.

If time and resources were of no concern, what is the one thing you would you do in order to make a difference in this world? Be specific.

I will select a winner from all the entries and announce the winner here.

Good luck. Entry deadline is June 13th.

Book Review : The Sin of Forgiveness

forgiveOne of the issues today that many people struggle with is the concept and practice of forgiveness. It is natural once someone has offended us that we hold a grudge against them and try to exact some type of payment from them. Unforgiveness has the capacity to keep both parties (offender and offended) locked up in a very personal prison. The Bible clearly teaches forgiveness and gives directives for both the offender and the offended. I recently finished lay minister and Christian counselor Edward Mrkvicka’s new book, “The Sin of Forgiveness”. I must say that I was drawn to the somewhat oxymoronic title. I have to say that with a title such as this, I was afraid of what I would find inside. What I found inside was an unclear, and at times, inconsistent treatment of the subject matter.

From the beginning, Mrkvicka speaks of a wrong and right kind of forgiveness. He speaks of secular forgiveness and divine forgiveness. If I understand it correctly, the author believes the necessary element, the pivotal point between secular and divine forgiveness, is the matter of repentance on behalf of the offender. He writes, “The secular world calls for forgiveness no matter the circumstances, or, at best, in response to the offender saying, ‘I’m sorry.’ Christian forgiveness is given in response to repentance.” I don’t know where to begin with this book. At every turn, and at the moment the author is building toward a good point, he introduces an unrelated thought that muddies the waters.

 Mrkvicka further confused me by constantly going back and forth between two examples of forgiveness that should have been stand-alone discussions: forgiveness between two people and forgiveness that results in salvation. While one is an example and picture of the other, it does not keep with the flow of the book. At times the book seems more of a treatise on the decline of American morals than a treatment of biblical forgiveness. Doctrinally, the book is hit and miss for me. As a pastor, I understand where the author is going with the concept of divine forgiveness and the necessity of forgiveness therein. That’s a hit for me. The author’s example of the consequences of unconditional forgiveness as it relates to remarriage and his views of salvation are a miss for me because they took away from the flow and purpose of the book.

I was asked to write an honest review of this book. You may not agree and that’s okay. You don’t have to. The thoughts and reflections offered in this review are my personal opinion. “The Sin of Forgiveness” is relatively short, approximately 150 pages. I enjoyed how Mrkvicka used extensive amounts of scripture to make his points. That is always a plus. However, his introduction of so peripheral information takes away from the main point. I personally believe “The Sin of Forgiveness” is a book that is best left alone.

Disclosure of Material Connection: I received this book free from Cross Focused Reviews as part of their Blogger Review Program. I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255: “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising.”

Mother’s Day With Anita

We can all think back to the various warnings and advice that our mothers have given to us through the years. Sit up straight, clean your plate, brush your teeth are just a few. Anita Renfroe has been involved in women’s ministry for years and speaks on the Women of Faith tour. She talks about practical matters of family and life from a Christian standpoint and has a wonderful sense of humor. I have posted a video below of an original song she wrote about the life of a mother , set to the William Tell Overture. If you are mother, you will be able to relate. If you have seen this before, I’m sure you will enjoy it again. Happy Mother’s Day.

And The Winner Is…

The winner of Chip and Dan Heath’s, “Decisive” from Waterbrook Press is Sean Johnson. He will be receiving his book in the very near future. Sean please get me your address and I will get your book out to you. Thank you to everyone who stopped by to take a look and share.

FIFS : Philemon 10-13

10. I appeal to you for my son Onesimus, whom I have begotten while in my chains, 11 who once was unprofitable to you, but now is profitable to you and to me. 12. I am sending him back. You therefore receive him, that is, my own heart, 13. whom I wished to keep with me, that on your behalf he might minister to me in my chains for the gospel.

The book of Philemon is a very interesting one. In a single chapter we find a book pregnant with spiritual truth. It is a book of grace, love, forgiveness, restoration, and relationship. This book, more than any other, zeroes in on the lives of specific people and explores their relationship. Onesimus was a slave who stole from his master Philemon and fled to Rome where he come into contact with Paul. Onesimus was won to Christ under Paul’s ministry in Rome. This letter is Paul’s request for Philemon to receive Onesimus back to himself. The word Onesimus means “profitable”. Paul states that at one time, in his lost condition, Onesimus was not profitable. But now, in Christ, he is profitable. He can be, and was, useful to the kingdom. Finally, he could live up to his name.

The elements in the book of Philemon; grace, love, forgiveness, restoration, relationship mirror the elements the believer enjoys in Christ. Prior to Christ, we were unprofitable. We were not of any use to the kingdom. We were incapable in making a difference in the world for Christ. After our new birth, we become profitable. We are useful to the kingdom. We are now capable of making a difference in this sin-stained world. Philemon forgave Onesimus. Jesus has forgiven us. Onesimus was restored in the eyes of his master Philemon. Through the blood of Christ we have been restored to a right relationship with God.

What do you think our churches would look like if we stood up for other believers and affirmed the Lord’s working in their lives the way Paul did with Onesimus? What do you think our churches would look like if we were as eager and ready to forgive each other as Philemon was to forgive Onesimus? What do you think our churches would look like if we were able to be as open with each other as Paul was with Philemon?  Something to think about.

Free Book Friday

decisiveIt is time once again for me to take another book from my bookshelf and give it away.  This week, I am giving away a copy of Chip and Dan Heath’s new book, “Decisive; How to Make Better Choices in Life and Work”. In their new book, The Heath brothers present a new and intriguing process for everyday decision-making. You can read my review of the book here. To be entered to win, you must do (2) things.

1. Follow my blog by clicking on the button at the bottom of the page. Don’t forget this step.

2. Answer the following question by leaving your answer in the comment stream.

In 20 words or less, apart from seeking guidance from the Lord, what or who influences your decisions most often? 

Good luck. Deadline to enter is May  9th,  2013. I will announce the winner here on May 10th.